Anti-trust regulators are living in the past. Here's why Facebook is technology's number-one monopoly.
Read more in Datamation. (Thanks, Jules)
Read more in Datamation. (Thanks, Jules)
The Strange, terrifying jumping off point that American women reach-18-21-25-41-has been noticed for many years by sociologists, psychologists, analysts, educators. But I think it has not been understood for what it is. It has been called a "discontinuity" in cultural conditioning, it has been called woman's "role crisis". It has been blamed on the education which made American girls grow up feeling free and equal to boys-playing baseball, riding bicycles, conquering geometry and college boards, going away to college going out in the world to get a job, living alone in an apartment in NY or chicago or san franscisco, testing and discovering their own powers in the world. All this gave girls the feeling they could be and do whatever they wanted to do, with the same freedom as boys, the critic said. It did not prepare them for their role as women. The crisis comes when they are forced to adjust this role. Today;s high rate of emotional distress and breakdown among women in their twenties and thirties is usually attributed to "role crisis".
But I think they have only seen half the truth!
What if the terror a girl faces at twenty one is the terror of freedom to decide her own life, with no one to order which path she will take? What if those who choose the path of "feminine adjustment"-evading this terror by marrying at 18, losing themselves in having babies and the details of housekeeping-are simply refusing to grow up, to face the question of their own identity?
Mine was the first college generation to run head-on into the new mystique of feminine fulfillment. Before then while most women did indeed end up as housewives and mothers, the point of education was to discover the life of the mind, to pursue truth, and to take a place in the world. There was a sense, already dulling when i went to college, that we would be the New Women. Our world would be much larger than home. Forty per cent of my college at Smith had career plans. But I remember how, even then, some of the seniors, suffering the pangs of that bleak fear of the future, envied the few who escaped it by getting married right away.
The ones we envied then are now suffering that terror at 40.
The early stages of a fantastic career might not feel fantastic at all, a reality that clashes with the fantasy world implied by the advice to "follow your passion" — an alternate universe where there's a perfect job waiting for you, one that you'll love right away once you discover it. It shouldn't be surprising that members of Generation Y demand a lot from their working life right away and are frequently disappointed about what they experience instead.
The good news is that this explanation yields a clear solution: we need a more nuanced conversation surrounding the quest for a compelling career. We currently lack, for example, a good phrase for describing those tough first years on a job where you grind away at building up skills while being shoveled less-than-inspiring entry-level work. This tough skill-building phase can provide the foundation for a wonderful career, but in this common scenario the "follow your passion" dogma would tell you that this work is not immediately enjoyable and therefore is not your passion. We need a deeper way to discuss the value of this early period in a long working life.
3. Gen Y misunderstands entrepreneurship.
Gen Y is scared of being screwed-over by corporate America because they saw their parents give up everything for corporate life and then get let down. Gen Y does not want to repeat this in their own lives. So for Gen Y, entrepreneurship is the ultimate expression of their conservatism.
Gen Y thinks the safest route in employment is entrepreneurship, so in poll after poll, the vast majority of Gen Y-ers says they want to own their own business. But what they really mean is they want to have a safety net. They want to feel like if they get laid off they will not be left high and dry like their parents were.
In general, though, Gen Y likes working for someone else. Gen Y likes assignments, they like feedback, they like meetings, group efforts, and after-work happy-hours. These are all the trappings of people who work for someone else. Entrepreneurs are mostly lonely, anxious people, living on the edge of what’s normal. And when Gen Y gets an inkling of those feelings, they run back to corporate life.
In the wake of December 14's nightmare-come-true in Newtown, CT, sales of Amendment II’s bulletproof backpacks have apparently skyrocketed. "Basically, there’s three models," said a company representative to Mother Jones. "A SwissGear that’s made for teens, and we’ve got an Avengers and a Disney Princess backpack for little kids."Read more in FastCompany.
So you made it, congratulations! You pushed on the world and the world changed in your image. Enjoy it. Bask in it while it’s there. Then let it go.Read Tobias's story in Revolution.Is.
If it happens to you early enough in your career, and you’re an entrepreneur or a creative person, external success can be an intoxicating and dangerous thing to hold on to. And if that outward recognition defines you, you won’t succeed again.
Powerful people do not have good listening skills. They hate to listen. They succeed by getting good at faking it. Here’s how I know. There are sixteen Myers Briggs personality types. Only 4% of people are ENTJs, but almost all Fortune 500 CEOs are ENTJs. Each type has an Achilles’ heel. The ESFP can’t stand being alone. The INTP can’t get their head out of the clouds. The ENTJ can’t listen.Read Penelope Trunk's blog post.
#10 “Your secret is safe with me.”
5. Anyone who just discovered they had superpowers at the WORST POSSIBLE MOMENT
"It’s not a pipeline problem. It’s about loneliness, competition and deeply rooted barriers." Read more in the NYT .